I had my first medical school interview on Friday.  It was ... blah.  Not bad, not great.  This school has a reputation of being rigorous and competitive.  Everyone there - from students to faculty, made a great effort to try and dispel this perception.  They kept saying:
"Don't worry about the interview!  It's just to make sure you are a social person and someone we would want to have as our classmate!"
That's understandable.  What became aggravating, however, was that many people - including current students as well as my interviewers, all asked the following question:
"So, what do you do for fun?"
I've decided that this is the dumbest question you can ask in an interview.  I understand you want to gauge where I fall on the social aptitude test (the "New" SAT!).  But honestly, how are you supposed to answer this question without sounding like a total toolbag?  Standard answers (some of which I said, many of which I heard fellow interviees say), along with my personal interpretation include:
#1: I hang out with my friends
(Please believe me!  I really have friends!)
#2: I go to the movies and hang out with my friends
(Please believe me!  I really have friends!  And PS I grew up in the suburbs).
#3: I play the guitar
(By any chance will you believe that I'm really chill and not competitive?  I'll host campfires in my room and we can roast marshmallows.  PS: I'm really a freak who loves Star Trek).
#4: I sing
(Shout out to my resume!  Please take a second look and see that I sung in an a capella group, re-emphasizing that I am indeed a well rounded individual.  Can you please  tell the admissions committee that?  Please??)
I was partial to #2 in my own interviews.  I find it ironic that had I been truthful, people probably would have looked at me like a freak.  Even though the things I do are TOTALLY normal.  Here's what I mean:
#1: I wear hootchie mama outfits and go dancing with my equally hootched out friends.
#2: Lifetime, Television for Women.
#3: My Super Sweet 16.  Actually, this should be #1.
#4: Taco Bell
#5: Any Will Ferrell movie.  Especially Old School.  Frank the Tank!  Frank the Tank! 
#6: Making fun of people.   We all do it.  And admit it.  It's fun.
#7: Write about people who ask dumb questions like "what do you do for fun?" on my blog.
When I was banking, I had to interview potential candidates.  I asked one girl what she did for fun (I know, I know).  She said she makes stained glass windows.  And you know what?  She GOT THE JOB.  Because when it comes to med school or a job, it doesn't matter what you do for fun.  What matters is can you get the job done and not get on my nerves too much.
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I had a bad weekend.  I felt overwhelmed and really depressed - and no, I did NOT need a Midol.  I stayed in bed all weekend and felt sorry for myself, while indeed watching Lifetime, Television for Women.  Seriously, there is a reason that channel rocks.  Depressed women everywhere, unite!
So, um, what do YOU do for fun?
 
 
3 comments:
sleep, read, discuss, watch movies...hmmm truly an idiotic question.
haha, lifetime. now i know the point of that channel.
Hmmm, I play guitar. And, sigh, closet Star Trek fan. You know me better than I know myself...
ohhh... a guitar playing Star Trek fan! Move over Casanova!
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